You know the feeling. Most of us do. But you weren't ready for it. Suddenly, your life seem discombobulated. What you used to know, what you were used to is no longer true. You seek the reasons how it happened. You blame yourself. You blame him/her. If only...
Easier said than done but do it anyway. It is the only way to get out of the rut. Visualize yourself coming out from under it. You deserve better. You deserve to be loved. If the most powerful, most high, strongest person in your entire existence can love you, you deserve better than to be jilted by an erroneous and fallible human being. You see, we are all imperfect beings. We are also selfish, thinking only of our own happiness. The farther you are from your relationship with God, the closer you are to heartbreak. Don't worry about the past, the past has its own issues. Having a close relationship with God is the first step to your healing. It is the first step to turning away from sin. If you continue to do something that fails, you have no one to blame but yourself. Falling for the same failures and thinking this time it will be better is just a pipe dream. Happiness is obtained through hard work. Hard work means turning away from the pleasures of the flesh and turning towards spiritual growth. Spiritual growth is given through the grace of God. Without the grace of God, you are just going to wander through life finding no meaning, no matter which way you turn. Pleasing other human beings will lead you to nothing but pain because human beings are imperfect, even though we seek perfection in a partner. We ourselves cannot give perfection to another person either. The only way a relationship can succeed is if God is in the midst. If God is shunned, the relationship fails.
What does that entail, you ask? Well, being obedient to God's laws and guidance is what it entails. As long as we are capable of loving God, fearing God, obeying and trusting that God will work in our lives, nothing can fail. Greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world. Believing satan's lies leads to disaster. Don't fall for it. If you have a lover, a spouse, or a mate turn against you, rejoice and ask God to forgive your sins and lead your life. Trusting in God to give you the right person who will treat you with respect, honesty and love is the better way to go.
Until my next rant... LOVE ONE ANOTHER!